What is Love?

 

Have you ever actually stopped to ask yourself what love is…to you? 

As I have searched to understand love, I have learned a lot about myself.

At first, I tried to define love.  I created all sorts of labels for it, I gave it titles and names.  I qualified Love with what I “thought” it was.  I thought about my family, my friends, the relationships I see in TV and movies.  I still didn’t know what love was…to me!

Next, I asked myself:  “What does love feel like?”

As I attempted to discover what love felt like to me, I had to consider all of the labels and names I gave it. Trust, honesty, kindness, forgiving, nurturing, compassionate, intimate, non-judgmental, and dependable.

Have I ever felt this from another person? 

Sadly, the answer was No!   Every relationship I have had has had an expectation.  If certain things weren’t done, there would be a consequence. 

The more I pondered this, the more my perspective on love changed.  Love doesn’t have expectations, nor obligations.  Love is just love! 

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