Be Mindful, and Be Love!
1. 1. There
will come a moment in which everything will make sense. Everything that we have endured, everything
that we have witnessed will be changed for the better. In the coming days/weeks all of us will be
free. All of us will understand the
nature of our reality. As I have
discovered, our reality is not what we think it is, and yet at the same time it
is exactly what we think it is. This is the
great conundrum! Whatever we think, IS
exactly what we will experience. So, be
mindful of your thoughts, for if you are projecting negativity into your field,
you will undoubtedly experience these negative sensations. Chose to let go of these judgments and decide
to find something positive instead.
2. It is time for us to remove all thought
constructs which limit our ability to feel.
It is a time to find unity within.
It is time to choose love! Not
physical love, real emotional connection to all of life. We must recognize that all of life is
connected. All life should be cherished. Everything which has been created has a
higher purpose. The insects, the plants
and animals all have a purpose. We must
remember this and understand that nature works in harmony together. If we KILL nature, how will we survive?
3.
Real love is Pure! It is free, it is inspiring and is always
present. If we wish for our
relationships to be loving – we must accept that each of us is independent. Each one of us sees and feels life
differently. The higher purpose for love
with another is to become unified in spirit.
This means, as one feels, the other feels. Both the man and the woman need to know WHY
they are together – and that reason is so that they can grow and learn
together. It is NOT to be their “maid”,
nor is it to be the muscle – it is to learn from one another. As situations arise which cause discomfort or
confrontations, instead of getting MAD at our lover, we should seek to
understand why WE feel the way that we do.
And we do this by being completely open.
We must learn to express our feelings freely, without blaming our
partner. It’s not their fault WHY we are
feeling the way that we are feeling.
They are simply the catalyst which shows us where we still have healing
to do. So, we must be totally open and
be vulnerable with our feelings and TRUST our partner to help us
understand. We must not fear
abandonment, and thus we must completely trust our lover and likewise we must
hold compassion for the one who feels hurt.
Together, in love, we can heal the hurt and make it go away!
4.
Be love!
We tend to focus our thoughts on the outside world. We see others acting out, doing really
bizarre things, and these things cause us to react in all sorts of negative
ways. We essentially become the exact
same energy that we just “complained” about.
We must learn how to observe the world while keeping our focus on our
inner happiness. We want to become the
happiest, most loving and fulfilled human we can be!
5.
What if?
What if you just stopped everything for a little while and just let
go? Can you be present and observe the
world around you? Listen to nature,
birds singing, cars driving by, etc. For
just a little while you no longer care about your status, your “titles” or your
money. You stop worrying about how
others look at you, you drop all of your judgements and you allow yourself to
JUST BE! Could you do it? How long can you sit still? Test yourself! Sit outside for 1 hour (doing nothing –
just being present to your NOW moment) and see what pops into your
head.
a.
Did you hear your monkey mind screaming at you
to do something? Was it telling you that
you have chores to do, that you are lazy or causing any other types of wild
thoughts to flood in? Was it planning
your next task, your next distraction.
Was it rehashing things from your past, or planning your future?
b.
How do you feel?
Do you feel anxious, or do you feel at peace?
c.
If you were anxious sitting there doing nothing,
that is your EGO controlling you. It
wants total control of everything you do.
It wants to keep you going so you never stop to relax, you are never
satisfied, nor do you “have time” to ponder life. It wants you focused on the NEXT new toy, or
what you want for dinner, or that golf game you want to play next week. The EGO wants you totally consumed by the
material world so you never find the inner world.
d.
The inner world (which is what we all seek) is
where happiness lives. We thought
happiness was found outside of us with things, cars, boats, big houses and
every convenience…and yet, we have all of these things and still we are not
happy! WHY? Because happiness has no EGO! Only the EGO loves money and things. Your heart, the REAL you, wants to be
accepted, appreciated and loved. These
feelings can’t be found from things, they can only be found when we love
ourselves and when we give our love to others. We aren’t judging others (or ourselves) – we
are accepting them!!!
e.
Things bring us temporary joy. True Happiness requires nothing! It is a choice. A choice to stop judging life and instead to
live life. It sees everyone as equals,
it accepts them for who they are and no longer tries to change or control
them.
6.
Why do we create? For Joy or for attention?
a.
We naturally want others to “Like” our
creations. Within our desire for “likes”, our focus should be on the joy of the
creation, NOT the love of the attention that our EGO receives from the
creation!
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