Lessons in Life!

 

The lessons in life! 

There are an infinite number of lessons each of us are to learn if we are to become a conscious co-creator – it is impossible to learn all of these lessons within one lifetime…therefore we must either a) have longer life spans, or b) we live, die and repeat. (i.e. reincarnation) This would make death an illusion?

Since a longer lifespan isn’t really in the cards for us, it is safe to assume that we reincarnate, over & over again in order to gain the wisdom from ALL of life’s lessons.  When we have lived enough lives, and when we have learned all of the lessons the 3D world has to teach us, we are free to Ascend to the next octave of existence. 

What exactly are ALL of life’s lessons?  Well, we can’t really sum up every lesson, they are infinite.  Besides, some of us may only need one life of causing harm to others as enough to fully grasp why we should NOT cause harm.  While others may need multiple lives with numerous painful experiences in order to understand this lesson. 

Instead of trying to see life lessons as individual examples, let’s look at them in a larger context.  What I mean is this…each of us has in our lives experienced doubt, self-criticisms, judgement, anxiety, loss, shame, etc. etc.  These experiences must be felt in order to learn the “self-worth” program.  This program is designed to show us every level of lower EGO mind thinking.  At some point in our evolution (probably after 100 lifetimes or more), we eventually realize that we don’t have to think this way.  We begin to see the higher purpose!  We have opened our heart chakra and understand that we are an individualized soul spark from the creator!  This is the most profound gift of understanding one can achieve.  When this realization manifests within our consciousness, we have learned the beauty and uniqueness of our soul.  We have learned that we (I) am one with my creator, and therefore my self-worth is healed.  When we are able to grasp this, we stop “thinking” that we are less than others (or better than others).  We begin to see everyone as ourselves.  This is the beginning of Unity consciousness.  The need to control, the need for competition and “good vs. bad” fades away.  We are able to SEE that every single person on the planet is having their own lessons to learn.  Each one of us has self-worth issues, each one of us has self-love issues, and all of us are here to “innerstand” these programs so we can release them.

When we see others as ourselves, we are able to step outside of our little bubble of awareness and begin to see the lessons others are currently “trying” to learn.  They have yet to discover Unity, they have yet to grasp the connectedness of all forms of life.  They see life in separation, and thus they live in a divided world.  But, when we have grasped the Unity within, we are able to shine a light on the programs (lessons) others are in the process of learning. 

We cannot interfere with soul lessons.  We should not be fixated on “saving” someone else from their own choices.  Instead, we should be showing them a mirror of what they are seeking.  There are so many examples for how to show others kindness and compassion…the main objective is to hold space for them while they are learning.  We can make suggestions, we can offer them guidance, but we cannot hold on to any attachment to their outcome.  If the alcoholic refuses to learn from his own experiences, well, that is on him.  It is not a reflection on you…if their soul is unwilling to learn, gradually remove yourself from the equation and allow the universe to “do its thing”.  Allow the Karma of life to play out! 

But love them – send them hope & prayers – but leave them be.  Do not go run back to them and try to save them when their Karma catches up to them.  They must learn this lesson on their own.  They must learn to value others, they must learn to love themselves.  They have very low self esteem and are being manipulated by outside forces.  Only they can make better choices.  Only they can decide to change! 

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